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Family mediation foundation course

The first step in becoming a family mediator is to pass a foundation course. After this, you embark on a journey towards accreditation where, with the support of your supervisor and peer network, you compile a portfolio of evidence demonstrating your development as a family mediator.

Upon successful completion of the training you would receive:

  • Observation opportunities with accredited mediators to start your journey towards accreditation
  • 50% reduced fee on the first post-training PPC (supervision) meeting (compulsory for newly trained family mediators)
  • Reduced fee on the Child Inclusive Mediation Awareness and Understanding day (compulsory for newly trained family mediators)
  • Membership to the Ataraxy graduates peer group

Course dates

Spring
2026
Online
Module 1
16–20 & 23–24 March
Module 2
15–17 & 20–21 April
Module 3
6–8 & 11–12 May
Course timings
9:00am – 1:15pm sessions
Autumn
2026
Online
Module 1
16–18 & 21–24 September
Module 2
8–9 & 12–14 October
Module 3
4–6 & 9–10 November
Course timings
9:00am – 1:15pm sessions

Application process

  • Please complete and email the application form. There is a £75 non-refundable application fee to cover administration and a 40 min video call with one of the trainers, to assess your eligibility, explain further about the course and discuss any questions.
  • The fee for the course is £2,600 and there is no VAT charge. If you are accepted into the course, a deposit of £500 is necessary to secure a place. Full payment needs to be received three weeks before the start of the course.

Why Ataraxy?

Quality over quantity
Small groups provide greater opportunity for learning. Our courses have a minimum of 6 and a maximum of 9 participants
Modular approach for deeper learning
Our courses offers time to process, reflect and absorb the learning. The Foundation course is 72 hours over 3 modules, in half-day online sessions to ensure wellbeing and attention
Maximising feedback
We maximise coaching in role plays with 1 coach/trainer to 3 participants – interactive and direct feedback to make the most of each session
Richness of expertise
All the trainers are experienced mediators and trainers, professional practice consultants and child inclusive mediators. With different backgrounds and styles, we make learning stimulating and fun

Course content

Our foundation course is delivered in half-day sessions over three modules. It covers everyting from mediation principles to mediating child arrangements, facilitating financial disclosure, or providing information to parents about child inclusive mediation.

Module 1
7
Sessions
9am—1.15pm
Online
  • What is mediation
  • Mediator's role
  • Principles & process
  • Core skills
  • Child arrangements, needs and impact
  • Parenting plans
  • Working with trauma and emotions
  • Screening: DA, etc.
  • Language matters
  • Law & children
Module 2
5
Sessions
9am—1.15pm
Online
  • Mediating property & finances
  • Financial disclosure
  • Generating options
  • Open Financial Statement
  • Memorandum of Understanding
  • Co-habiting couples
  • Co-mediation
  • Legal framework
  • Information vs advice
Module 3
5
Sessions
9am—1.15pm
Online
  • Child inclusive mediation
  • Role play assessment
  • Theoretical frameworks presentations and assessment
  • Diversity
  • Mental capacity
  • Legal aid, voucher scheme
  • Record keeping
  • PPC, supervision
  • Accreditation & next steps

Teaching Methods

Presentations
Interactive exercises
Role plays
Group discussions
Participants’ own presentations
Self-reflective practice.

Remote Study Time

Pre-course work
  • FMC Code of Practice
  • Chapters from The Psychology of Conflict by Randolph and Family Mediation by Parkinson (2025)
  • Advicenow guides
  • Language Matters from the Family Solutions Group
  • Videos on empathy
After Module 1:
  • Assignment about principles of mediation and skills.
  • Parenting Plan based on one of the role plays.
After Module 2:
  • Presentation and two short essays on theoretical frameworks:
    • “Family Mediation” by Parkinson (2025),
    • “Renegotiating Family Relationships” by Emery (2012)
    • “Conflict. From theory to action” by Lulofs & Cahn (2000).
After Module 3:
  • Transcript and reflection on skills of the video assessment during Module 3.
  • Memorandum of Understanding.
  • Q&A assignment on competence criteria.

Assessment

The course is assessed by the trainers/coaches and an independent assessor.

The trainers will be observing and assessing all participants during the training, including: their understanding and ability to absorb new concepts, skills and to demonstrate competence; their aptitude as a family mediator; their commitment to the role and tasks; their achievement of a satisfactory level of the FMC professional competencies as outlined in FMC Manual of Professional Standards and Self-regulatory Framework. They will also assess all the assignments except for the video recorded role play in Module 3, which will be sent to an external assessor.

All the assignments need to be passed in order to complete the course. There are two opportunities to resubmit the written assignments and one opportunity to resit the video assessment.

Post-training

Training to become a family mediator requires a high level of commitment in terms of time and application. Having passed the course you will be able to join one of the five family mediation Membership Organisations and register with the Family Mediation Council as working towards accreditation. You will also need to obtain professional indemnity insurance and find a Professional Practice Consultant.

After completing the course, you must have a post-training review with a Professional Practice Consultant, who will be able to help you reflect on the course and identify what you need to do before you begin to practice as a family mediator.

It is important to try and find an accredited family mediator or mediation service which can offer you opportunities to observe mediation practice and perhaps allow you to work with some of their clients. Some services may charge for providing opportunities for trainees to observe mediations. At Ataraxy, we offer observations without charge.

To achieve accreditation as a family mediator you will need to achieve a high level of mediation competence through practical experience. This is evidenced by your preparation of a detailed work-based portfolio which generally takes between one and three years to complete. Your Professional Practice Consultant will support you through the accreditation process.

All family mediators must have a Professional Practice Consultant with whom they must meet for supervision for at least four hours each year. Those working towards accreditation must have an additional ten hours supervision before submitting their portfolio for accreditation.